وَإِنَّ مِنكُم لَمَن لَيُبَطِّئَنَّ فَإِن أَصابَتكُم مُصيبَةٌ قالَ قَد أَنعَمَ اللَّهُ عَلَيَّ إِذ لَم أَكُن مَعَهُم شَهيدًا

Among you, is he who hesitates. If a disaster strikes you, he would say, “God has favored me, since I wasn’t martyred with them.”